THE YOUNG GENERATION
By Gomezgani Mhango.
Let’s be honest, we the Young Generation, oftentimes, do face turbulent times during our romantic relationships. So, how do we carry ourselves? Do we call it quits and move on? Do we just easily let go of our beloved ones just like that?
Fellow Young Generationers, let us know that it is hard to let go of someone you truly love. If there are differences, learn to renew your passion for each other. It is like falling in love again, again, and again, but with the very same person. I know, this may seem so out of this world, but believe you me, it has been tried and has been proved to be one of the best remedies for saving romantic relationships. Don’t’ have a clue? Hold on.
- Re-create what you had in your early years together
Many people have got the tendency of being good, loving in the first years of the relationship in order to win somebody’s heart. Once this ends, it leaves out the relationships in tatters so, once you note that things are falling apart in your relationship, fall in love again with your Loved one by doing what you used to back in your hey days.
- Have some time for her/him
No matter how tight your schedule is, always make her, or him your priority. Once you start creating excuses tht you are always busy with office works and what have yous, know that you are digging your own grave.
Know that the longer it takes before you meet, the more distant you are going to be between yourself. So, if she really matters to you, if he is really your Prince Charming, always make up some time for them.
- Restore your kindness
Kindness is love in action. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted and forgiving. These are recipes for minimizing harm to your ‘world’. When you are operating from kindness, you’re careful how you treat your partner, never being unnecessarily harsh, you are sensitive. Tender.
It is difficult to demonstrate love when you feel little or no motivation. But love in its truest sense is not based on feelings, rather, love determines to show thoughtful action even when there seems to be no reward. You never learn to love until you learn to demonstrate kindness.
- Avoid deliberate annoying one another
There are times when some people do things deliberately to annoy their partner, to them it is fun but trust me there is no one on earth who likes spending time with someone who annoys them. When you are walking under influence of love, you will be a joy not a jerk. Ask yourself, Am I a calming breeze, or a storm waiting to happen? So if you are to renew passion in your relationship, avoid irritating your loved ones, be a flower among the thorns and respond pleasantly during prickly situations. In so doing you, create a suitable and favorite environment for both of you.
- Cherish your partner
As I said earlier on that, not every complicated relationship needs a breakup. The problem with our culture is that whenever our relationship experiences difficulties, you are urged to dump your partner of which is a step in reverse. Despite all the short falls that our partner can have, we should also be able to treat them with affection and tenderness, embrace them. Cherish the time you spend with them. Think of the need of your spouse and choose a gesture that says “I CHERISH YOU” and do it with a smile.
It’s time to let love change your thinking It’s time for you to realize that your partner is as much as part of hand, your eye or your heart. He or she needs to be loved and cherished. Remove anything that is hindering your relationship, any addiction or influences that are robbing off of your affection and turning your heart away from your partner and have a healthy relationship.
Fellow Young Generationers, let us learn to embrace love. Let love lead!!!!